A major prophecy in the private scholar Yi Zhibin:
four virtues will fill the blank of the family and moral education
contemporary family education is most lacking is moral education because of lack of moral education, so many children,gucci indy, despite the appearance look smart and lively, but the fact that many many greedy, indolent, selfish, cold and bad quality precisely because of these bad quality, resulting in many children of this generation of material affluence, but still difficult to obtain happiness embarrassing reality.
is because parents do not care about moral education? perhaps, but what is causing the parents indifferent to the moral education of it? I think the most important reason is that their society to educate children to provide them with moral concepts is not recognized, but I do not know Taoism to the children what kind of morality, so he chose the moral laissez-faire mm, of course, this laissez-faire is relative, many parents in the process of educating the children, or focus on children the cultivation of moral education.
However, it also produced such a reality can not be ignored: the parents in the moral education of the lack of definite rules, and thus education in their own ways, the effect of the formation of a very different and this issue deserves our food for thought.
Why? way out?
First, we take a look at our moral education Misunderstanding.
Over the years, the biggest mistake of our moral education is the moral unlimited high level, that people say to the ethical thought is to do the saints, is to bring all the youth and blood are dedicated to the country or society is this concept of moral education is to infiltrate the family education, so that parents have a talk about moral education is to train child's selfless dedication to the spirit of the homes have been man and ancestors.
put forward this line of thinking is so naive as to believe that this set a good example for people to be educated. With such a good example effort, even if we can not become a saint, but as long as even learn a certain extent is also very effective if we everyone in the pursuit of the lofty moral character, can make their own moral character to a certain extent and level of society as a whole will become more beautiful.
does not know the result of this publicity tend to be the educators will lead to several psychological:
a psychological: To my selfless dedication, homes for men and ancestors after, which I have no benefits, so I can not learn.
another psychology is: even if I learn, then efforts can not become the kind of person, why I need to pursue it? What's more, really to become as a person, I shall suffer death, or do not learn as well. the
think so,Gucci Tote, there is a psychology that saints this mortal how could reach that level? me courses are also useless.
undeniable, many parents have the same psychological. think about it, if the parents know so, then his moral education,Gucci Shoulder Bags, he will do? parents do not do it then how much publicity there to?
we must first see, parents are more concerned about the child's welfare, so even if moral education they need to bring the child's well-being moral.
Therefore, it is imperative to find the content of moral education by the parents, that is, can bring people happiness and moral content.
We propose four Deqia good for the needs of parents for the content of moral education: hard work, temperance , love, justice, these four qualities, which one is not about the moral quality of the child's welfare? which one can not create the conditions for the child's welfare? Moreover, most people know, if you lack these qualities, then the bad quality of the greedy, indolent, selfish, cold, etc. will become the child's personality traits. personality characteristics,gucci outlet, the children how to be happy?
respect from society, although they do not require that children selfless dedication, homes have been for people and their ancestors, but they do not also beneficial to society you?
plus proof of the theory based on the above understanding, easy Zhibin believe that the four virtues can fill the blank of the family and moral education has become Family Education core content. easy Zhibin predicted in the next decade or beyond, there will always be one day the whole community will recognize hard work, temperance, love, fair four virtues on the future of humanity and personal happiness, greatly significance. society would diligence, temperance, love, fair four virtues to establish the basic content to educate people; schools will be hard work, temperance, humanity, just four virtues taught to students; parents would diligence, temperance, humanity as the basic moral character, impartiality four virtues teach the children under the guidance of the four virtues of human society will usher in a new, more beautiful tomorrow! I'm sure this prophecy will be realized!