Yesterday, standing in the window to look outside, inadvertently found branches of the hanging outside the window of the leaves each piece is different, without the leaves grow exactly the same. So I think, with tree leaves of even so, how much more will the human. Colorful human society oakley sunglasses, the difference of social life is an objective reality of existence, everyone live different, because the life experience different in writing with his life story. Facing the reality that, we need to a state of mind, live out their own happiness.

Social groups, have seen people daily, headgear chu chu, decked with gold, elegant, who have cloth covering yan, haggard, busy for a living, who seems to be human destined to so, therefore, natural like but can let a person produce the different ideas of psychology. As for the risen from poverty, may think that inferiority, smaller than the somebody else. In fact, people living in the world, the happiness index was never social standards, see oneself how to measure and evaluation. We heard the occasional this line of lyrics: "where is the happiness? Happiness in my heart". Also remember ever seen this kind of words: "man on a horse I ride my ass, ponder sigh, as I look back, and to push the driver". Visible, happiness and people's mentality relationship is very large.

The society, have the law for, to taking bribes fraud, desperately seek money, spend ceremony for happiness goals, such as fujian yuanhua group of case of lai, new China LiuQingShan corrupt officials, zhang zishan, cheng kejie was executed, etc. But, when "happiness" in to him very close to, the men in the confessions to wu "people life, is not to live in, three meals a day, night sleep a bed?" Cao xueqin in in a dream of red mansions wrote: "spare forget, eyes behind takes no way think back," however, when it came time to this point, happiness no longer; There is a human, and human vulnerable groups will be for nothing, then store to store up field store room, in order to do the miser and feeling of happiness. These eosinophilic wealth like life and the life of the miser like vampire overspend, to death all want to leave a great deal of money for future generations to enjoy, little imagine, eyes haven't closed, and the gas is not swallow, helplessly looking at future generations into "the parasitical" or "WuDu taste" person, so far, these people have psychological well-being? As for some of us, thinking that all day long only matter enjoy, is happiness. However, mentioned the two kinds of people, they have a large material wealth, they really happiness? Above all, happiness and people's mentality is closely linked, out of their understanding, but practice is not ripe, there is no standard answers, but every answer is not the same. Understand happiness, or to and mathematicians ChenJingRun found material "worthy to be promoted" together, its people life is a revelation.

Ten years ago, I am in a village in the rural communities, see such a pair of young couples, two people on the fruit trees in the spray pesticides. Noon rest to eat, and in the shade when table, a few sweet potato, a pot of gruel, a few to dried turnip, even rice also sweeper. But both the whole meal out from laughter fake oakley sunglasses, is happy and harmonious, feeling giving a person is very warm. The poor husband and wife living conditions, the contrast of the Hong Kong star Leslie cheung, if you throw a ticket is who live happy, you will vote for? But, Leslie cheung jump off a building suicide, and the couple but live such calm. This and how explanation?

Everybody wants to live a good life, who all want to live happy, but things always treat every. Some people, through effort, a change to the impoverished life, some people even though hard, doesn't change the fate. Therefore, we will face life, face to the reality, and regular comb their own state of mind, inclusive yourself, do "you walk you of JinGuangDao, I walk my wooden bridge", step back, the broad sky. Can't do red flowers, when green leaves, the machine can't do, when screws. Let life have distinguishing feature each, colorful, don't talk to my bread and butter, then. In short, understand the role in the life, is to know to encounter of emotion and reason, is the sublimation of wisdom and ignorance, also live out their own happiness the special features.