If you're back with an ex boyfriend you might be asking yourself -what do guys want - more specifically, what do guys want from a relationship with a woman? These questions couldn't be more appropriate especially if your back with an ex boyfriend.

If your seeing your ex boyfriend, the feelings that your experiencing are most likely that of ambivalence. What is meant by ambivalence is that of many mixed feelings - particularly feelings of cautiousness, reservation, but also some sense of tranquility. These mixtures of very different emotions can be frustrating, confusing, and even painful if you go back into a situation blind.

In order to have a situation become more bearable, you first must understand some basic things about the nature of males.

First of all, most men like mostly everyone,moncler, desire attention. However, when we say this it doesn't mean that everyman will make it noticeable,cheap timberland boots. Most men typically want to perceive themselves as 'manly'. What this means is that even though most men seek attention - they will come across as not wanting it or needing it.

This comes back to one of the fundamental reasons as to why men act this way. One of the primary reasons why men act 'hard-core' or 'macho' regarding emotions is because men desire to be admired. They seek people to recognize and look up to them. Above all, they seek a sense of worth.

If a guy is having a hard time finding admiration or a sense of certain importance - he will start to close off emotionally. By closing off, it doesn't particularly mean he will withdraw emotionally and become quiet. It could mean any host of negative emotions such as: Jealousy, selfishness, anger, rudeness, substance abuse, lying, cheating... the list goes on...

Now lets really go into detail a little as to what this can mean. There are numerous factors that can be attributed to many different types of negative behavior when it comes to anyone - not just a male. However, one of the other main things that guys want is a sense control and stability over certain things in his life. Now this doesn't mean being controlling, it basically means having order,ugg boots uk.

It could be said that every human being desires control over his or her own life and direction. In regards to a man, a lot of his nature is about establishing the right balance and harmony that he wants in his like.

You will find that in most every case - the reason why some guys are negative is because they can't understand or fix the imbalances that are occurring within certain facets of there life. Not having certain things in order and in harmony will make most men extremely frustrated and agitated.

That's why good communication is so important in a relationship. Communication is - if not the most crucial component in a real, healthy relationship,moncler outlet. Make sure there is mutual compassion, compromise, and connection as well if you are truly wanting to make things work with an ex boyfriend. There are many other elements that make up the best, and most healthiest relationships. You want to make sure your doing your part in order to have the best person that you deserve and desire be a part of you life.